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There are so many guys who just start stalking a girl to impress her and it surely doesn’t work. Half the battle is won if you impress the girl before you start talking to her; if you are a born charmer, it’s a cake walk; if you are not, here’s the solution!

• Girls are very observant and too judgmental. They form an opinion about you from the time they see you. They can scan you entirely in a fraction of second, from the brand of your T to the color of your socks. Dress well and  pay attention to the minutest details like keeping your nails clean to smelling great.
• Make sure you are chivalrous in your gestures. When you are around her (and even otherwise, [v] suggest) never slam a door on anyone behind you. Be extremely polite and sophisticated even while calling out to a waiter.
• You need to build a rapport through eye contact. Just look into her eyes (Please not anywhere else), don’t overdo the staring. If she stares back, blushes or looks down; then you are doing good. And if she doesn’t respond or looks away then don’t push it further – that’s her way of saying that you haven’t pleased her enough, so leave it there.
• If you are at a party then you can send her a drink with a small note saying something cute and flattering her. You can only do this if she is giving you the right cues, otherwise you might have to deal with something totally unexpected. After the good date, send a romantic sms to her if you think the time is right.
• Think you know how to move? At the next party you go to, use your dancing skills to your advantage and woo the girls by following their steps.

So guys go ahead and impress the girls. Play smart here as your every move is watched and evaluated. Share these tips with your single friends and get them going. Add your suggestions to the list of ‘flirting without words’ and let us know what works for you!